You know that feeling when you come home exhausted
from work and all you want to do is dive into a bag of chips?
or
When you’ve had a rough day and all you can
think about is the ice cream sitting in your freezer?
or
When you go to the movies and the aroma of
buttered popcorn makes it impossible to skip the concession stand?
These are all examples of emotional eating.
‘Emotional eating’ can be defined as eating due to an emotion rather than
hunger. Many think that emotional eating only occurs when someone is feeling sad,
but it can actually be associated with any
emotion--such as joy, anger, boredom, frustration, excitement, etc. We may also
associate certain activities with eating, such as popcorn at the movies, even
if we are not necessarily hungry.
What
is the big deal?
Treating yourself after an accomplishment or
to celebrate a special occasion is not necessarily a bad thing. Food is a huge
part of our culture and has the potential to contribute to the happiness we
experience in our lives. The issue is when it becomes our main emotional coping
mechanism. Throughout our lives, we have learned that food has the ability to
provide a sense of comfort, so it tends to be our go-to source when we feel lonely,
sad, anxious, angry, or stressed. This comfort is short-lived, however, and the
emotions we were struggling with do not go away when we finish that last
spoonful of ice cream. In fact, it might
lead to even worse feelings of guilt or defeat. Ultimately, the issue is that
emotional eating keeps us from discovering other healthier and more productive
ways to cope with our feelings.
What
can I do?
The first thing to do is identify your own
personal emotional eating triggers. This may be difficult to do in the
beginning, but it is necessary to distinguish between emotional hunger versus
physical hunger. It takes practice to distinguish between the two, but remember
that physical hunger comes on gradually and stops when you are full. Emotional
eating, on the other hand, can occur suddenly and continues on even after you
are full.
Tips
to help you stop emotional eating:
• Keep a food journal or use a smartphone tracking app (Watch
for Orriant’s app coming soon). By taking the time to write things down, it can
help you be more conscious about your food intake.
• Go for a walk outside. The fresh air and exercise can help to
improve your mood.
• Clean the house or do yard work. Busy work like this allows
you time to think and sort through emotions.
• Talk to family members or a friend. Talking things through
with someone else can give you a new perspective.
• Listen to music, play a game, take a bubble bath, or do any
other activity that brings you joy. These activities can develop into your new
emotional coping mechanisms.